Yogis,
The now annual ‘nana camp’ for my two oldest grandchildren is a wrap!
From the moment they arrived on Sunday evening until Friday
afternoon’s drop off there was nonstop action. Some new activities were added
in this year like seeing a children’s musical and making rice crispy treats, but
many old favorites resurfaced as well. Smores made over the firepit (they
really are delicious), a movie at a theater and a couple trips to the pool.
Two nights of backyard camping were one of the highlights.
My husband is always in charge of the things that make me nervous. Overseeing trampoline time at our next-door neighbors, front flips and all. And letting them ride go cart bikes down the street. Thrilling.
Like most things in life, at some point you stop and try to
remember how it all came to be. What was the impetus.
I have my parents to thank for this tradition. As each of my
boys got old enough, they would go (one at a time) to spend a week in NJ with
their Nana and Pop Pop in the summers. My dad would take them to the amusement
park to ride rollercoasters, golfing and of course, to the racetrack where he
would give them money to use for betting on horses. My mom would set
up a cot next to her bed for them to sleep and they would watch game show
network together before drifting off for the night.
These are how relationships deepen. Lasting memories are formed.
Spending time with grandkids when the parents are there is
wonderful, but it is in the dedicated times alone that connections truly form. When
they have to come to you with skinned knees or hurt feelings. When it is you
putting them to bed with a nightly lavender head massage and making their
breakfast as they wake. Trust and an understanding of how you fit into the
puzzle of their life are developed.
They will remember (as my boys can attest).
More grandchildren will be attending nana camp in the
future,
SARAH
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